No sugarcoating shit. No apologies. Just real life.
Hey, I’m Charly — full-time mom, full-time college student, full-time chaos coordinator. I’ve been divorced (twice), disappointed more times than I can count, and gaslit so hard I needed a flashlight. ADHD? Yup. Trauma? Absolutely. Anxiety? She’s in the group chat.
But somehow, I’m still standing — and now I’m telling my story.
This isn’t a lifestyle blog.
This is a survival journal. A place to vent, unravel, laugh, cry, and maybe overshare a little too loudly on the internet. And if someone out there reads it and thinks “Holy hell, same”? That’s a win.
đź’¬ Why I Started This Blog
I created this blog because my ADHD brain never shuts up.
The only time I’ve ever felt any real relief from all the chaos was when I was journaling — usually in the middle of the night, writing messages to myself when I should’ve been asleep.
So I figured… why not just blog it?
If writing helps me quiet the noise, maybe it can help someone else feel seen in their own mess too.
And believe me — I’ve lived enough for a book or two (maybe three).
But this chapter?
This one’s about healing and letting go.
🧠A Few Things You Should Know:
- I’m not your average “hottie tottie” soccer mom.
- I’ve got ADHD, trauma, and a whole lot of sarcasm.
- I’m back in school (for the third time) and determined to graduate this time.
- I call out red flags like a carnival barker now.
- I overshare, overthink, and sometimes cry in my car like it’s a music video.
So if you’re into brutally honest stories, middle-of-the-night thoughts, and emotional laundry aired out with zero shame…
Welcome to my chaos. I’m not fixing it — I’m writing through it.
Uncovering one dirty load of laundry at a time.
— Charly, Shit Show Coordinator